Will I ever be an ex-vegan?
That’s a question I’ve been pondering on these past few days.
My short answer is no.
My long answer is this very post.
Obviously no one knows what the future holds. Humans have the (sometimes aggravating) capacity of changing their mind and evolving. It’s part of what makes us very unique animals.
Our ability to think, reason and exercise compassion is at the root of the very decision to become vegan.
For some reason that I find very hard to understand, that same ability is also responsible for people going back on their convictions.
I have spoken briefly about this in my Breaking Up with Veganism post but I feel it’s worth mentioning again, in the U.S the number of ex-vegans/vegetarians is 5 times greater than the number of current adherents to the lifestyle.
The vegan movement is clearly better at bringing people on board than keeping them in their ranks.
A lot can be said of those who abandon the vegan ship. Often not so nice things are expressed about them by the community that welcomed them with open arms in their pre-vegan days.
This chastising of ex-members is seen as cult-like and it’s not hard to figure out why.
The “if you’re not with us, you’re against us” and “you were never really part of us to begin with if you quit” doesn’t look good for any organization.
There is a common theme in the vegan community of brushing former members away on the basis of “you were never really vegan if you quit; you were just plant-based”.
Of course there is some truth to that but it’s an oversimplification that doesn’t explain everything and all cases.
Yes some people were in it purely for health reasons. It’s easy to understand why they quit if they feel their health is compromised.
It’s however harder or impossible to grasp how the most ethically focused and militant vegans out there suddenly turn their backs on the animals.
This is the real ex-vegan conundrum.
The fact that somewhere down the line our ethics and moral choices can change.
Like I mentioned in the beginning, it is human to evolve.
Our moral compass can change.
Truth is, like a real compass, it can be affected by many variables.
I believe the main one to be survival.
Humans and non-humans animals have an inherent will to survive. We can be violent, aggressive and downright murderous if need be.
If we feel we need to I should say.
At some point a vegan re-evaluates his/her choices in light of some new belief that they are in danger. True or imagined it doesn’t matter.
Their health may be declining, their circle of friends shunning them or whatever else. The important point is that they are stuck weighing their own survival and well-being against another creature’s.
The big question is: if someone believes intently that going back to eating animal products will help them survive or improve their quality of life and also believes that it is wrong to do so, when does convictions break?
When is the breaking point appropriate?
For my own life my answer is: never.
Even if for some reason I came to be in such a position with such beliefs in my head, I wouldn’t do it.
It’s an extreme position and very possibly a seemingly unwise one but I simply can’t imagine just giving up.
I don’t care if being put on this planet is supposed to mean that I should survive at all cost. I don’t care if everything and everyone I see only care about themselves.
I would rather reject nature and what it means to live on this planet if my only option is causing death and suffering.
In the end, I don’t blame people for thinking differently.
It’s a hard world we live in.
What do you think?
Do you see yourself ever being an ex-vegan?
Are you an ex-vegan?
I’d love to read your thoughts in the comments.